Thursday, March 6, 2014

Bell-ringer and Activity

Bell-ringer:
For today's bell-ringer, you will read the article below and answer the questions that follow.

"I am the Person You Hurt When You Use the R-Word"
by John Franklin Stephens

Sometimes I feel like Professor Van Helsing, or maybe Buffy the Vampire Slayer. I keep trying to kill this thing and it just won't die. Of course, my nemesis is the "r-word," not a vampire.

Like Dracula, the r-word just sucks the life out of those of us who fall in its path. It spreads like an infection from person to person. It seems as though perfectly nice people who "mean no harm" get bitten by hearing others using the term while "meaning no harm." And so it goes, from person to person, until it becomes so common that even Presidential Chiefs of Staff, radio talk show hosts, movie characters and famous political pundits use the nasty slur -- then say they "meant no harm."
To all of you who use it, let me say it one more time, THE R-WORD HURTS. You don't have to aim the word directly at me to hurt me and millions of others like me who live with an intellectual disability. Every time a person uses the r-word, no matter who it is aimed at, it says to those who hear it that it is okay to use it. That's how a slur becomes more and more common. That's how people like me get to hear it over and over, even when you think we aren't listening.

So, why am I hurt when I hear "retard." Let's face it, nobody uses the word as a term of praise. At best, it is used as another way of saying "stupid" or "loser." At worst, it is aimed directly at me as a way to label me as an outcast -- a thing, not a person. I am not stupid. I am not a loser. I am not a thing. I am a person.

It hurts me to think that people assume that I am less than a whole person. That is what is so awful about slurs. They are intended to make their target seem smaller, less of a person. People who live with an intellectual disability do not have an easy life. We have to fight to understand what the rest of you take for granted. We fight for education. We fight to live among the rest of you. We struggle to make friends. We often are ignored, even when we have something to say. We fight so hard to be seen as whole people. It hurts so much, after all that struggle, to hear you casually use a term that means that you assume we are less than whole.

How shall we respond to those of you who still use the r-word? Well, like Van Helsing and Buffy, we are going to aim at your heart. The only difference is that we are determined to drive a smile, not a stake, through your heart. Come join me on the side of the good guys. I promise you will feel better about yourself -- and no other people will have to feel bad about themselves.

1. When you say "retarded," are you truly meaning any harm by it?
2.  How could it be harmful towards someone?

Block-6th Period
Finish the activity from yesterday (or activities for block--you had TWO!).
When you are finished, look for countries that you would like to do a research project on. After selecting your countries, it would be good to start looking for credible websites that you could use for your project. Wikipedia and Google will not work. Tomorrow, you will be telling me which country you will be doing your project on. Two students cannot have the same country.

7th Period--
Today, you were supposed to have your groups formed for the next project. While I am not going to give you the prompt yet, I will tell you that it deals with international relationships and issues.
You are going to create the group contract today. Unlike last time, you will not have to write out your contract. As a group, you will type your contract using the provided template. When you are finished, you will print out your contract, sign it, and give it to Mr. Spivy. Let me know if/when you finish.
Template  click on the Collaborative Contract

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